In many families there is a disturbed environment between parent and children and wife and husband. Parents sacrifice their lives for children and transferring their assets too. Wife and husband share so many. Children feel a lot about their parents.
‘But why the disturbed relations?’.
Today youth feel that parents are their property, we can use their lives till the end. The family is not a place for discussing one’s rights and responsibilities,it is a place for sharing responsibilities and enjoying the rights.
- Children are adamant
- Disturbing us with bad habits
- Wasting time with TV/Computer games/Friends
- Demanding money
- Neglecting studies
- Not bothering about future
- Involved in love affair
- Do not help in family matter
- Always control, No freedom
- Daily tell same suggestions
- Talk only about marks and education
- Daily quarreled
- Ask us to away from the bad habits, but they can’t
- They like love, oppose in our case
- Always feel tension about our future and put us in tension
Read this story
Once upon a time there was a famous poet Bhavani. His poems attracted the people very much and they praised him a lot. Whenever, some body praised his son, father commented, Bharavi, a child in poetry, need not to praise that much.
Bharavi became hurt; it happened again and again. Bharavai felt that,” father was envious about my poetry”, so, to get fame, father must be killed.
Bharavi prepared a plan in the mid - night to murder his father. He had selected the kitchen, where father took food in the morning and climbed to arrack with a big stone. He would like to throw the stone on his fathers head.
Ready, one… two… mother started conversation with father, Bharavi hearing.
Mother:‘Bharavi was unhappy’
Father: What happened! He was a good poet, no problem with money, What happened, asked out of anxiety.
Mother: You only the cause.
Mother: Yes, you were always passing negative comments, while somebody praising our son.
Father: Laughed loudly,’ Don’t be silly’. Whenever, I used such words, the people will say, “no, no, Bhavani was a great poet.” If we also praise, people laugh at us.
Mother: I didn’t’ think like that….
A big sound….father afraid of and started to run, but somebody pulling his leg, look down, Bhavani caught his leg; there was a big stone adjacent.
Father: What all this!
Bharavi: Father you were lucky, if mother did n’t start conversation, you might have killed.
Bharavi: Yes father, I misunderstood you, give me a punishment.
* Think, whether you understand your parents properly *
Responsibilities of Parents and Children
|Shall give good education||Read well|
|Shall provide food,clothing & shelter||Shall Look parents in old age|
|Shall look after health||Follow Parent’ssuggestions|
|Shall maintain peaceful home environment||Don’t create problems|
|Shall teach good habits||Learn good habits|
|Shall share love & affection||Share love and affection|
|Shall give money||Don’t waste|
Disputes are common in families. If there is no adjustment between wife and husband it becomes a battle ground. Petty things are cause for many quarrels but the loss is more. Some of them are given here;
|Wife feelings||Husband feelings|
|No value for my word||No value for my word|
|Admonishing my parents||Admonishing my parents|
|Don’t give money for needs||Waste money|
|Growing distance after having children||Strained with duty|
|Do not ask while purchasing something||Always not possible|
|No roll for me in children matters||Just feeling|
- Bad habits
- Illegal contacts
- Health problems
- Financial matters
- Sex problems
* Family is just like a flower, if parts separated, loses it’s beauty *